Every year with exception of last year when I just had Roo, the first couple of months were honestly a blur, I make a new resolution for the New Year. I only do one I don't make a list because it takes the whole appeal out of it, it just ends up being another list.
Past New Years Resolution:
1)Loose weight-which that year I had this as a resolution-I did loose weight hella crazy whoop whoop
2)Make an effort with meeting new people. I moved to Brewster, NY from Stamford, Ct about WOW! almost 4 years ago. Which I did but I realized there are douches in Brewster just like in Stamford. This will probably be on my resolution again since I have a son now and I should be friends with some mommas in my area since mostly everything I do now is for my son. Even though a lot of mommas in my area are like 15 years older than me with a 1 year old, but that's a blog post for the future
3) Wake up in a happier mood, or just in general stop being so pessimistic. I'm not the grinch and I know a lot of stuff happens to people all the time it's just I'm the "hey let's let it fester and let this keep us awake" type of gal. So I made an effort the minute I got in the car in the morning to put on pandora comedy on my drive to work. It worked and really helped my mood in the morning.
4)Vacation more! I made my husband promise me this. If we went on vacations more it would help out with resolution #1 and #3 :) We went on one literally before I got pregnant and it was amazing!!! I personally think every couple should go on a vacation without KIDS! It's just something about going away and just letting your hair down. My husband works like crazy and I know it's easier to say then do. But that year I had this resolution we did go away and so that counts in my books :)
These resolutions have been on heavy rotation for the past 8 years. This year I decided on a new one and I know resolutions tend to be for yourself. But as a mother I have become more all about him.
So here goes. Now that my son has hit the 1 year mark and he is able to enjoy things more this will be fun for him and Jordan and I to do. Mind you I won't make my husband do this, since this is my resolution after-all, but if he happens to be home, why not.
To do something new and exciting once a month. You think, ughh wouldn't you do that anyways. There are soo many times we go somewhere and I don't really plan enough time or I do something that Zach is just too young to enjoy. Then it just ends up being something I did for myself and that it looks "good" when I post it on Facebook. In our household, weeks fly by! I sometimes work Saturdays at the office which makes the weekend feel even shorter.
My parents always worked, weekends, late night etc. The time they did have off was spent vegetating on the couch or going over to my cousins place. Which I can't get mad or hate them for, they did what they had to do. But I knew when Roo was born that quality time will be given to my son. Just for the fact that it wasn't really given to me by my parents.
So here's to a Happy and Healthy New Year! Make the year count!!